Friday, May 4, 2012

Why Guys Pull Away.

I think the movie  "How To Loose A Guy In 10 Days" explains it the best.
Here are the main reasons why  guys pull away.

1 Not being your own person.

You loose the guy when you loose all your friends and he becomes your "best friend forever. "
Why is this a sure way to loose him?
He realises that he is now the sole owner of your attention.He did not sign on for that! He wants to spend "some" time with you,not be with you ALL the time.

2 You have no interest other than making him happy!
Get a life and get it Now!
Find a hobby that you are enthusiastic about.(Not a fake one like Harrison Ford in Sabrina.)
Do something unique that expresses who you rally are.

3 You are a couch potato.
This speaks for itself. Women who are active have the go to do things.Join a club to:
Go camping,
Go rafting
Go skydiving
Go scuba diving
Go Go Go.
Anthony Robbins describes it best when he says:"Get more reference points."
The more you have, the more interesting you become.

4You want to be the perfect mirror of his interests.
One short answer: Don't!Don't try to become him. He chose you for who you are.
Cloning himself was never in his mind.
Become more of you.

5 You love to sulk.
Sulking when things do not pan out as planned is a sure way to drive him away.
Be the ray of sunshine when things go wrong .Think and plan ahead because life happens.
What do you do when you get a flat tire?
a double booking at your favorite restaurant?
a shoe strap breaks?
It starts raining on your new hair do?
Think of how you handled a crisis in the past and plan how you are going to do it  this time.

These are the five things I have found to be a sure way to let a guy pull away.
I found this hilarious video about how to make a guy pull away.


Enjoy:

The answer of the question WHY GUYS PULL AWAY? Can be found here: http://bit.ly/whyguyspullaway



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